The art of taming couples

Tells the story of one of the old legends about a woman who came to one of the wise men ask him to find a way to love her great love can tame it and have his heart, he said to her: What you ask needs cost and risk will only be achieved if I brought a hair from the neck of the lion, and indeed women went They are thinking of how to get the hair required, and consulted of trust in His wisdom was told that Assad does not preys unless he was hungry and you have to Chbaah and improve to deal with him until I received from the bad, and the next day I went to the forest and began aiming for a lion meat cut away and continued to draw the lion and written with time, came the moment that stretched beside Assad and he does not doubt for a moment in her love for him, and put her hand on his head, and took wipe the hair and neck tenderly and took the hair softly and ran to the wise and joy fills itself as Stterba on the throne of her husband forever, and when I explained to the world plan to tame Assad said her: "Your husband is no more vicious than the lion then do with it what I did with the lion-proprietary."

Studies and doctors Mental Health confirms that women are more logical than men and are capable if you use their skills to accommodate men and fit, and return reason to nerve fibers in the brain and connected between the left lobe, a clove of logic and right lobe, a clove of emotions is stronger in women compared to men, which makes a woman's ability to deal with the event logically and more emotional than men, so women often were used succeed logic to solve problems they face.

Says "MM", "took the first years of my marriage in disputes lasting quarrel with my husband because I was unable to understand and cope with the printing, but I later learned how Ahtwe and control my actual responses and my emotions even out of the state of constructive interaction and flexibility check us marital happiness."

She adds, "n. G": "The secret behind any marital relationship successful is intelligent wife and the speed of its understanding of the nature of her husband, something will come not only the occurrence of some marital disputes and different situations that you understand the wife of which the nature of her husband and what he loves and hates, and entrances to access the heart and satisfaction, It is something that needs to perseverance and diligence and ability to control their emotions, and this is what I learned and went to him after years of my marriage. "

And see "nm": "The nature of men tend to vigor and anger, something needs to be patience and largeness of the wife that God Jblha on kindness and compassion."

Use your intelligence

But there is no pair is perfect, the smart wife is able to deal with her husband's flaws sharp the husband foul you have to Ttercah so restless and then comes your reaction filled with compassion and quiet away from the nerve and excess emotion and then you'll notice that you have taken control of the situation and I was able to absorb the anger of your husband and earned affection , and the pair Intelligent who loves reading, writing and sailing in science and science, Faihb woman show her love for his intelligence, you have to Tsalah any question touring your mind, any Being pupil in the class, to answer your questions and review the muscles of his mind and his abilities and his information in front of you.

Women have complained of "barbaric husband" who does not handle it and had no tactful way of dealing with it, but the pair may become a child if she wife to gain a smart way Vhaola to sit with him a confession session and try to Tsarahih affectionate manner and bugs to change his style with you , Kony always cold like water that quenched the fire burning.

Experts advise that Taatqrbe of your husband and seeing you love and affection and interest, and more importantly, this "obedience" Kony always obedient wife maid to her husband, but that does not mean Qhrk and humiliated, but in order to keep your home and your family right away to answer demands without delay or miss, and if he said anything to you or your order order and provocative manner or strict and harsh tone try to Ttafi anger by saying, for example, "from my eyes, O-Ghali," "you order something."

And do not forget modern Prophet peace be upon him: "If a woman has reached a fifth and a silent months pregnant and kept her vagina and obeyed her husband told her Enter Paradise from any gates of Paradise wants" .. Narrated by Ibn Haban in Saheeh from Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him, talking horses in the small mosque .

The secret of your strength weakness

Put in mind always that the secret beauty of a woman who captures the man is weak Vqotk lies in the weakness and his sense of being wanted it; you may be adept at controlling your emotions, but this is also not enough arbitrary in your facial expressions, not Tnzera him sharply, nor MAKE looks seem meaningless like you do not care and do his words, bonds, and that the good word quiet is useful in that position.

Married expertise and confirm that the quiet time of ignition storm anger your spouse is the best solution, but will not miss the storm, but after the destruction of something that might be your dignity or your feelings, whatever amounted to temper Connie calm, coherent and strong, just get out of the tension, and the large number of speech and movement, and cry, because these things will exacerbate the anger and temper.

There are phrases and words increases the ignition anger your spouse, do not Tlahakanh the word "calm down" or "I do not see that it is in need of all these neural" These words Chith anger, Astbdlleha to "You're right," "Let us think together in a solution so as not to repeat it again "" I promise that I will work hard to achieve what you want ".. and so on.
Expert and consultant on family relations Magdi Nasser and summarizes some of the methods that reduce the harsh foul of the husband in the following:

1. always shown, quiet, and set the nerves.

2. Connie always ready to deal with him at any time carefully.

3. Do not try to provoke but Jadlah in the best manner.

4. pink Dial on the ears always H

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5. Connie always have good ears.

6. Connie always confident of your thoughts and your opinions, do not hesitate to offer it with full confidence.

7. Use some of his words and his words when your offer for any topic.

8. Use with style (yes .. but) they key (rein) peeve pair.

In the end, remember that gifts captured the hearts, has commanded us by the Prophet in his "Give gifts to love one another." Bukhari, and the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - accept the gift, do not eat charity Vtzchri your husband a gift whenever you get conditions and being confident that no man can resistance absolutely love his wife.